A meeting with Misunderstanding.

Anderi Raat thi ,aur mai akela tha, aage ja kar dekha koi betha hua tha ek phed k niche.

andhera bahut tha ki saaf dikai ni de pa rha tha kon tha,

pas thoda gaya toh deka ek parchai h waha,tabhi socha parchai h toh koi insan be hoga,lekin nahi bs wo parchai thi wo be andere mai.

Bahut himmat kr k maine socha bhoot pret k bare m suna h bht aj mauka mila jan hi lete h kya sach m wahi log hote be hai.

jaan hateli par rak kar mai aage bada.

Piche se awaz lagai maine ap kon ho aur akele kyu bethi ho,

wo kahi yaha koi ni ata tum aye toh mai sb batati hu.usne kaha mai गलतफ़हमी hu,jisse tm log Misunderstanding be kehte ho.

darte hue mai uske pas gaya aur kuch is tarah hamari baate hui. :-

 me : kya ap wahi ho jo log hum aamtor pr jante h

Misunderstanding : ha mai wahi hu, mai be insano ki tarah pasand,na pasand sb rakti hu

Me : (heran hote hue m pucha) lekin kya apki be feelings h? ( kuch jaan pau toh maine usse sb puchne ka socha)

Misunderstanding : ha sb hai, jo tm insan ki hoti h pasand na pasand

me: toh ap rehti kaha ho ,yahi isi andere mai? 

Misunderstanding : nahi,mai waha rehti hu jaha pyar hota h,lekin pyar k pas ja ni sakti directly lekin uske aas pas rehti hu.

me: toh jese hum log khana kahte h kya tumara be koi bhojan h?

Misunderstanding :ha mai pyar khati ,Riste kahti hu💔

me : omg kya yeh wahi pyar h jo insano k bich mai hota h ?,jo unhe ek sath bandhe rakta h

Misunderstanding : ha sahi samje ,wahi mera bhojan hai,wahi chaiye hota h mujhe,aur jo naya naya pyar hota h wo mai asani se pa leti hu kyoki wo kamjor hota h.

me: kya pyar be apki tarah koi pysically exist krta h as a body?

Misunderstanding : mujhe ni pta kese tm  mujhe dek pae as a body lkn ha ha jese mai hu tm dek pa rhe ho same pyar be m dek pati hu chalta hua,hasta khelta,rota hua,chota bada.same aur be emotions hai jinhe mai janti hu dek skti hu.

     Me :  tumne kaha tm pyar ki dushman ho usko khati ho,lekin har dusman resist be krta h, apni dum be lagata h,,kya pyar tumhe rokta ni ?

Misunderstanding : jese tm insano k dushman hote h wese mere be h,pyar sbse bada duhsman h,,wo rokta h hamesa mujhe,choti age wala pyar be ladta h mujse lekin wo kamjor hota h kyoki akela hota hai,aur mai akeli ni hoti.

Me :(heran hote hue ) matlab kya koi aur be h jo tumare sath h,,mujhe janna h kon h wo log.

Misunderstanding : mai apne m adhuri hu,,akele kuch ni kr sakti,,akele jau be toh ek chota baby size ka love be mujhe hara deta hai,,issliye mai kamjor hu toh maine kuch sathi chun liye mere jese,

unki bajeh se mai kabhi hari nahi ek be bar.

Me : ‥😞 wo log kon h please kaho aur agar wo tmare sath h toh yaha kyu ni h wo? sathi toh sath rehte h na.

Misunderstanding : mere sathi ka naam h Ego.

ha wo mere sath ni rehta,wo waha apne ap ah jata h jaha wo ana hota h. mai be usko follow krti hu kyoki wo mera kam aassan kr deta h.mujhe jo chaiye hota h wo mujhe mil jata h,aur usko uski cheez.

me: 😭 matlab tum dono log us akele pyar pr attack krte ho ?

Misunderstanding : ha sahi samje,,wo akela hota h aur har hi jata h chai wo kitna be bada kyu na ho.

hum dono jaha h waha pyar ni reh pata aur usse harna padta h,marna padta h.

me :kripya mujhe is baat ko samjao ki kese tm log kam krte ho itne powerful  pyar ko hara dete ho

Misunderstanding : mera sathi Ego sbse phele insan ka dost banta h,dost na bane toh insan usko rehne hi na de,,, wo insan ko feel krwata hai ki tm kuch ho,sirf dhool mithi nahi ho,usme aag barta h, insan ko sukh ka anubhav krwata h jb insan ego satisfy krta h, insan ka dost ban jata h wo,,kabhi kabhi uski pehchan be.

issliye mai toh disrectly tum insan k pas ni reh sakti lekin wo aaram se reh pata h.

me : jaisa tm batai us hisab se toh ego accha hi krta h,insan ko galat ko samne jhukne ni deta,fir toh wo accha hua na?

Misunderstanding : ha insan be wahi feel krta h yeh mera sathi h,,lkn insan usko positive roop m leta h,,lkein dhire dhire wo ego usi insan ka dushman ban jata h,aur insan yeh samaj ni pata.bahut chalak h wo

mere dost  ka 2 basic nature h :

*wo kabhi jukta nahi chai sahi ho baat ya galat,na juhkna uske nature m hota h

*wo bahut matlabi hai khud ko bachane k liye insan se sb lost krwa deta h,lkn khud wahi rehta h.

aur bichara insan uske galat femi mai sb khone lagta h.lkn insan ko yeh be pta ni chalta ki wo sb kho rha h.

me : ( pheli bar mai kisi se itna karreb se sun rha tha lis topic pr ekin dil bahut udas :(  tha sunte waqt

ki kese yeh log pyar jo katam kr dete h. ) 

kya Misunderstanding tum be kuch krti ho us process mai ?

Misunderstanding : ha mai doorio ka faida leti hu,,log jitne door mai utni logo k pas reh pati hu.

mai kuch ko kuch mai badal deti hu,,ese bht bar krti hu aur cheeze fir badi lagne lagti hai.

aur log un baato pr jo maine badal di un pr soch  pae isse phele ego mera sathi unko rok deta h.

ki tm galat ni ho sakte..galat dusra h..sochne isse do,tm jaha ho theek ho.

ese soch vichar ni krne dete hum log insano ko,,aur insan hamare accoridng action and decision leta h

aur is tarah hum mil kr kam krte h

Me :aur is sb ka end kese krte ho?

Misunderstanding :akir mai jb pyar sari kosis kr leta h toh be hum dono ki shakti k samne kamjor padhne lagta h,,bichara akele kya krega..mujhe hara be de lekin insan k hidden dost ego tak kese waar kr paygha.

aur fir insan pr 1 rasta reh jata h ya wo pyar ko chune ya ego ko..

insan pyar ko hi sunna chata h lkn fir mai apna kam krdeti hu aur sb galatfemi la deti hu aur insan sochta h pyar se toh dukh hi hai,,isko chod dene m balai h. aur wo usko chod deta h..tab pyar zammen pr pada hota h aur mai usse kha jati hu

Me : (yeh sb sunte hue mere ankoh m ansu ah gye ,kyoki yeh log wahi pyar ki baate kr rhe h jo hum insan ko insan se jodhe rakta h.) aur kis tarah yeh log safal ho jate h.

Misunderstanding :ha jo tm soch rhe wo sahi h lekin yahi h sacchi.

me : anshu pauchte hue mai ''Misunderstanding''  ko danyabaad deta hu ki usne sb bataya

aur usse vida le kr jane lagta hu. jate waqt afsos hota h insan k jeevan kitna najuk h,,kitna akela h pyar aur kitne sare h uske dushman

...... ...... ... ... .. . .. . . . .. . . . . . . .mai lot hi raha  tha tabhi piche se awaz ati h ''Ruko tum''

piche mudha toh dekta hu wahi parchai mere samne kahdi ho gyi h

Misunderstanding : Tum phele insan ho mujhe dek paye ankoh se be,aur tumne dil se sb pucha mujse

mujhe lagta h shyd kabhi maine tumara loss kiya hoga,ya kr ri hogi mai ,mujhe afsos h lkn mera yahi kam h

lkn tum mujhe sache lage.  Ee  -musafir mai tumhe ek raaz be batana chati hu

  

Me : esa kya raaz h

Misunderstanding : mai tumhe yeh be batati hu ki  kese mujhe aur mere sathi ko haraya ja sakta h.

koi apni kamjori ni batata lkn tumhe yeh raaz keh dena chati hu ,tum jana aur insano ko batana

Me : ha yeh hum insano k kam ayegha,kripa kar k kahe

Misunderstanding :toh suno, mai waha har jati hu ja bishbas hota hai,

bisbas pyar ki taqqat ban jata hai aur last mai mujhe harna hi padta h.

agar 2 logo ke bich mai bishbas be h pyar k sath toh waha pyar akela ni  hota muskil time mai.

rahi baat ego ki toh usko harana bahut hi muskil h,mai har jau bt wo ese ni harta

bs itna janti hu e musafir usko bs pyar hi hara sakta h......pyar ko value di jae to pyar ego ko katam kr k sahi soch paida krta h insan mai,jisse misunderstanding ka be ant hota h.
Insan agar us sameh soch vichar kare toh ego ko hara sakta ya apni galti pakad sakta h.
Iska matlb yeh ni insan ko galti man leni ya nahi manni..bs wo sahnt beth kr soche..sochne se kuch ni jaegha aur kya pata usse uski galti pta chal jaye toh wo sudhar sakta h khud ko.

aur itna aur kaughai

जब मैं था तब हरि‍ नहीं, अब हरि‍ हैं मैं नाहिं. प्रेम गली अति साँकरी, तामें दो न समाहिं. - 

(The lane of love is too naroow to pass two at a time. When 'I' (ego) was there god could not enter Now when god came 'I' has vanished.)

koi ek hi reh sakta hai ego ya pyar,,ego hara kr pyar ko paya ja sakta hai e musafir..

 Me : maine usse dhanyabaad kaha aur wo raaz samja aur us raaz ko bapis le kr chala gaya apni duniya mai

.......................................................................Aur  kehte h wo musafir zingadi ko sahi jeena kaur riste ache se nibana sheek gaya.  Aur tum ?

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-  Jinhone jana unhone paya